erod550 wrote:I'm not trying to judge her or you or anything, and I wasn't even suggesting you were having sex. Put it this way. If you were married to someone and found out that for 5 months your wife was seriously talking to some other dude and then hanging out with him for a while after that. Would you not feel betrayed? That's all I'm saying. Maybe to Bill Clinton that's not cheating, but to me it is. Cheating doesn't have to be physical. That's all I'm saying and I'll stay out of it from here forward.
I hear what you're saying, and I agree, I would feel betrayed then too, but I still don't think that's what she's doing. I don't think she's talking to anyone, I think she just underestimated how hard a deployment is on a relationship. What's really sad though is that this isn't even a year like the Army, it's only four months. But even just four months can be too much for some people, it's all in how strong you are I guess.
I told her before I left that I probably wouldn't hurt as bad because I'm used to deploying, this is my sixth and most likely not my last. Now I'm definitely hurting...well, I was anyway. I'm doing much better now.
Stealth01 wrote:Bullet dodged. Chick's head isn't right. Warning signs? Yeah, like every other sentence.
Now dodge the real bullets during your deployment and come home safe.
I don't have to worry about dodging bullets, I've never actually been deployed to a dangerous area. Well, it could be dangerous, but it would have to be a missile or something haha.
Number2 wrote:maybe we could offer him a few words of encouragment, not just take sides on whether she was cheating or not. It's irrelevant at this point.
Thank you.
